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Frankly, it drives me crazy to see how many women out there are looking for tips, tricks and scientific methods to be more attractive to men. Most of these “attracting men” tips are ridiculously stupid, sexist and down right demeaning to all women.
Just type “how to be more attractive to men” in Google and these are the “helpful tips” you will find:
- “Take excellent care of your hair”
- “Make sure your skin is soft, smooth, and free of blemishes”. (Don’t have perfect skin? No one will talk to you!)
- “Put on a red dress”
- “Talk in higher pitches” (It’s “scientifically proven!”)
- “Adopt a supermodel strut” (Oh. My. God.)
- “Don’t cry next to guys”. (In fact, try to NOT be human at all)
- “Smell like cinnamon or vanilla”. (Better yet, just stuff some home made cookies in your pockets).
- “Smile frequently, make guys around you laugh.” (Should I take acting classes too?)
- ” Be confident, assertive, don’t be needy and clingy”. (No problem. Confident? I’ll just say”abbra caddabra hocus focus” and I’m confident! Great!)
I don’t get it. Am I the only one that gets extremely annoyed by this type of “advice”? Should I blame Google for picking this as the best content to show us or the women magazines and blogs that publish that type of BS every hour?
Shut Up and Be Beautiful
It’s sad to see that the 1820′s rules for attracting men are still being pushed down the throats of 2012′s women.
Do you really believe that you won’t attract men unless you learn to hide your real self, have perfect hair, red pouty lips and smell like cookies?
Please stop searching in Google for “what do men like in a woman”, “what do men like to hear”, “what do men like women to wear”, “what smell attracts men”, “do men like blondes more”, “what to say on a first date”.
You are looking for the wrong kind of information. You are focusing on the wrong things. None of this humiliating advice will work for you.
How to Be More Attractive to Men – In 2 Steps
In my humble opinion, there are 2 important steps to be more attractive to everyone on earth:
Step #1 – Forget About Men for a Second
Forget about the men for a second. Seriously, erase the existence of men for a while and focus on something much more important – YOU.
The way to be more attractive to men is the way to be more attractive to any human being – Focus on yourself.
These are the important things to focus on RIGHT NOW.
The happier, satisfied, positive and calm you will be – The more attractive you will be for men, women and those in between.
Strive to live the best life you possible can and as happy as you can from within. From deep inside.
Step #2 – Sneak a Peek in the Mail Mind
Forget about the women magazines. Forget about women’s advice all together. Learn about how the mail mind works, how they think (usually the opposite from the way you think), what’s important to them and what doesn’t really matter (Your looks, for example!).
When you have the right knowledge about how to understand men, everything will be so much easier. Attracting men is NOT hard work. It’s not as complicated as you might think and it doesn’t require changing yourself, playing games and manipulating.
It’s fairly easy to turn into a man magnet if you have the right knowledge. YOU decide what to do with that knowledge. You have the built-in power to attract any man you want, just learn how to use that power.
Always rooting for ya,
Lisa
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How to Be More Attractive to Men – The Secret That Women’s Magazines Won’t Tell You
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