How to attract men?
By Lisa Redfield
I’ll get right to the point: Attracting men is so much easier than you think. In fact, if you ask a man how to attract men he will probably laugh and say something like “just breathe” or something like that. So, why do almost 10,000 women every month search for the answer on Google (yes, I know how to see these statistics…)?
I’ll bet most of these women are good looking, smart, funny and successful. So…why? It’s because this simple principal is often ignored and even when not ignored – Not applied the right way.
I have found this article by dating coach and expert David Wygant (one of my favorites), which explains this simple principal and how to avoid a common mistake when trying to attract men. Here it is, at your service:
How to Attract Men – What Am I Doing Wrong?
… So what makes someone attractive to the opposite sex? What makes someone attractive in general? One of the core principles I teach is that you need to put out good energy in order to attract people.
People are attracted to those who are positive, who smile, who are open and who are enjoying their life. People who walk around angry, unhappy and with closed body language will not attract anyone. These are important enough concepts to reiterate over and over again.
Here’s what is so interesting though. Even people who understand this concept tend to make a mistake in how they try to apply this.
The number one mistake that men and women make when they go out and try to meet someone of the opposite sex is . . . that they go out to try and meet people of the opposite sex. That is, they go out with laser focus trying to locate and talk to people they are attracted to, while ignoring everyone else.
If you understand what creates attraction, though, you know that it is created not just by how you interact with someone you want to attract but also by how you interact in general with the world around you. You attract members of the opposite sex not only by how you interact with them individually, but by how they see you interact with others.
In fact, although it may initially seem counterintuitive some of you, you will actually begin to attract more members of the opposite sex the minute you stop focusing on trying to attract certain people and you start focusing on how to just become attractive in general. To become really successful at meeting and connecting with members of the opposite sex, you need to really get this concept. (This is the article source).
Does This Make Sense To You?
Try this different approach and you will see the difference in your dating life sooner than you think. The magic of this principal is that it applies not only for when you learn “how to attract men”, but for other relationship aspects in your life (work relationships, friends etc). By the way, David Wygant has much more excellent advice – Right Here.
What do you think? I would love to read your comments and personal experiences about this. Also, please share how you feel about this advice and Facebook it below.
All the power to you!
Lisa
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