20 Surefire Signs That Your Ex (Secretly) Wants You Back

Your ex has broken up with you, but for some reason he still sends mixed messages. He calls, and then disappears. He says he is over you, but keeps in touch with your family.

And that makes getting over him and mending your broken heart a million times harder.

Inside you feel that there’s something going on. Maybe your ex wants you back? Could it be that you can get back together?

How can you know?

On the other hand, you don’t want to fool yourself that your ex wants you back. If it’s not true, you know your heart will be broken all over again.

How to Know if Your Ex Wants You Back (Secretly)?

Here you’ll find 10 signs that you ex wants you back, divided into 2 possible situations:

1. If you are still keeping in touch (as “friends”)

2. If you are in a “no contact” situation.

1. The “Friends” Situation – How to Know if Your Ex Wants You Back

1. Your ex contacts you frequently, without any encouragement by you. Either by calling you, or texting you (more than once a week though), or sending you private messages on Facebook.

2. Your ex keeps sharing his life with you. He talks (or writes) a lot about himself and about new things that happen in his life.

3. Your ex is very interested in what you are doing, who you are seeing and if you are dating someone else. He seems jealous if you do.

4. Your ex makes sure that you know that you are the first person he tells all the significant stuff in his life.

5. Your ex keeps mentioning that he is not dating anyone else, or that he is not interested in meeting someone new.

6. Your ex asks for your advice (and approval) before he makes any major decision.

7. Your ex seems to show up everywhere you go. Even not everywhere, but in many places.

8. Your ex flatters you, tells you how good looking you are and calls you “baby” “honey” etc.

9. Your ex seems to put a lot of effort in his looks when he meets you. He looks really great every time you see him.

10. Your ex touches you. He tends to put his arms around you and look for other opportunities for a physical contact with you.

2. No Contact Situation – How to Know if Your Ex Wants You Back

1. Your ex keeps in touch with your friends and/or your family – Frequently.

2. When your ex meets someone who knows you, he asks a million questions about you, and if you are seeing anyone new.

3. Your ex “accidentally” shows up in places he knows he’ll meet you. And I mean more than once.

4. Your ex’s friends “happen to mention” that he or she is not dating anyone new.

5. Your ex likes or comments on your Facebook status updates.

6. Your ex shows signs of missing you through gloomy Facebook status updates, like “my life feels so empty”, or “I’m so tired of this world”.

7. You bump into your ex one day and he seems to know everything about your life (after the breakup): What you’re doing, who you’re seeing etc.

8. Your ex drunk-dials, texts or emails you. The alcohol has given him the courage to show you that you are still on his mind.

9. Your ex doesn’t want to return some of your stuff.

10. Your ex is upset and mad if you are the one that doesn’t want to stay in contact.

If you want your ex back, and he shows some of these signs that he wants you back, you have to be really smart about what you’re doing.

Making the same mistakes you used to make will only get you right back to where you are now.

1. Before you do anything, it’s critical for you to figure out what went wrong.

But this can be very difficult, especially if your ex only gave you a lame excuse as an explanation for the breakup (something like “This relationship is not working”).

If you need help with this critical step, I recommend that you take a look at “The Magic of Making up” book, because it takes you through a process of truly evaluating what went wrong in your relationship.

T.W Jackson’s E-book also covers important “strategies” for contacting your ex. How to set up that important meeting and how to handle yourself at the first meeting after the breakup.

2. Use the power of texting – If you and your ex are not keeping in touch, texting is probably the ultimate way to get your ex back in your arms.

It’s powerful because you don’t have to show or admit that you want him/her back, while cleverly making your ex realize that you are all that he’ll ever want (and chase you like never before.)

Here’s my post with some powerful texting examples – Go check it out.

Always rooting for ya,

Lisa

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